Pansexual Pride “Queer Sex Doesn’t Count” And Nine Other Myths Uncovered- And Debunked- at the Harvard “Rethinking Virginity” Conference Pansexual Pride “Queer Sex Doesn’t Count” And Nine Other Myths Uncovered- And Debunked- at the Harvard “Rethinking Virginity” Conference Nothing too new here, but this is an awesome virginity myth: “You can only lose it once.”