falling apart: a strategy in self care and activism, via Joanne.
my work being one of witnessing the hard feelings unfold, of creating a space of honest conversation where anyone of any gender can fall apart around me and i will listen, i will love, i will honor your survival and remind you that it is okay to let it out that you cannot hold all that pain inside.
as a masculine person of color i take this role seriously. often this role falls on the backs of women, of femmes and that is playing into patriarchy.